Saying A Goodbye

Goodbye's are the only things we do perfectly.
They are always cherished. A friend going away for good. That one last meeting, that last smile. We remember it perfectly.
Today, while watching Pretty Little Liars, it struck me, that the only thing that we get from everything is a good goodbye. Be it someone moving out, going away, or ending their journey in this world.

Memories are a wonderful thing that we human's are blessed with. Through out the 20 years of my life, many things changed. The only thing that was constant, was change. I have bid goodbye's to many people. School friends, college friends, and yet again, the trend continues. It's not that there aren't ways to keep in touch. in this digital age, when all we do is communicate, we still are hit hard when someone leaves. There is something about being physically present, being with a person, that nothing can replace!

When a person leaves, you change, and so does that person. And you know what? It is okay! It really is. So let's stop fretting about it. Let that goodbye get a tear in your eye, let it break you a little. After all, those broken pieces make you who you are!

I guess that's how it is always meant to be. A little piece of us with everyone we meet, and still our life goes on as it always will!



Love,
Jam

Leap

So my past few blogs are pretty much about the experiences I have had. I hope they made a little difference to you. Hope they got you thinking.

Now, I am going to urge you to go and take that leap! Letting go, even after a lot of back and forth is not exactly the end. There is a lot more that comes after it. Taking a leap is one of it.

Go and take that leap. What we really want is what we all are really scared of. Change!
the only thing we have got to do is take that leap, let something end and let a new beginning arise.
We don't let go off people cause we are not scared of losing them, we are scared of who we are when we are with them.

If only we realize this soon. At one point of time, we all do realize. But, as they say, the sooner, the better.
Every year, we look at our old photos and say, God! I was different back then. What changed?
you grew!

Do what is in your mind, what you truly want. Don't think about consequences, the day you start living like that life will be awesome. That one baby step you thought you would take towards the guy you like, start doing it now!

The dance classes you let go, no time to go sky diving...why? Our busy lives do give us the time, we need to recognize it.

So go ahead take that leap. Do the things you wanted to, but were scared would change everything.
'cause I just did!




Love,
Jam

We need to do nothing!

Hello guys!

I graduated and some things just fell in place. Have written down something that might give you a new perspective about things! Read on and let me know in your comments below!

Just out of Graduation, life seems to be so promising! It seems as if everyone has a meaning to this mundane life! What life has in store no one knows. Days have gone by, but the memories still seem fresh. Making projects, bunking, all of it seems like they were what college was all about. We had a feeling that when we are in college we are doing nothing.

Well, realization struck me and how! Doing nothing is not attending college. It is not sitting online, not hanging out with friends, not watching tv, it is literally Doing Nothing! Sounds easy! Well, try it!
We are programmed to make use of each and every day that we have. We are not made in a way where we can just sit in a corner and do nothing. We think, cry, laugh, dance, sing. We always do something.

The point here is, well when you have nothing to do you realize how difficult it is to do that. Senseless blabbering, the random photography, amazing food-mixes, poems out of the blue flow in when you think you are doing nothing. Creativity, that is what flows when you think you are whiling away time!

We don't realize that when we are 'doing nothing' we are actually doing what we really want to but think that its unnecessary. Such things are unknowingly present within us. When we do get time, we enjoy by either coloring a book, playing a game or cooking for yourself!

There are so many articles about the generation losing it out by overworking, stress, depression, and what not! If you see anyone around you doing that, just stop them and take them out for a walk, a coffee! No harm in it right?

We are in need to do such things! It kills me to hear about suicide stories due to such stress and depression. Only if parents understood that their kids won't become smart by having their hands full with 7 classes a day! Smartness will flow in when their kid has time to think what he/she wants to do. Their true potential will come out when they are sitting and doing nothing and thus doing everything possible.

Don't let the current lifestyle, the need to have a hectic schedule fill you in! Don't let it define you. Do everything you can and thus just DO NOTHING!

Let's just remember what Joey said:


P.S.:This is my first attempt to write. Kindly let me know your views. It would be of great help. :) :)

Love,
Jam