IF only... these words are a part of everyone's lives. We all know that we conform to our society's view and their thoughts. A few changes in our lives is all we want, but are we really ready?
To have a change means coming out of your comfort zone and accepting that things wont be the same. We are so scared to do it that we do the same job for years, for the fear of not getting 'such a good job' again. We stay with the same circle of friends so that we are sure that no one can hurt us.
Is it wrong to be safe? Isn't that what we learn as we grow up? Be safe! Keep everyone around you safe? Safe! Safety! Protect you loved ones! Then why all this rattle? Why this urge to break free?
Just take a look and wonder, how much are we losing when we are just being safe?
Letting go of people, places, and thoughts is difficult, but once you take the decision, stick to it and you will feel good! (Trust me on that) You won't die :D
A feeling that we all want, wish for, pray for, but are too scared to accept it. We stay in the same relationship even after we don't feel for the person. A friend of mine told me, 'I have invested 7 years of my life, I don't want to start all over again!' She is not wrong, but then just because you will be out of your comfort zone, just because its easy, shall we just give up on our chance of seeing a new beginning?
These questions just keep running in our mind, but we avoid them. If we stop avoiding and start accepting that change is the only thing that keeps us alive, the hope for change, the need for change, then maybe we all will one day have the most wonderful feeling in this world!We all can feel good, content, happy.
Acceptance, will lead to letting go - the old feelings, the regrets, those people who hurt us, the thoughts that haunt us and a life that awaits us!
So stop holding on, stop being safe and for once, just let it go darling! This once, for yourself :)
Love,
Jam
To have a change means coming out of your comfort zone and accepting that things wont be the same. We are so scared to do it that we do the same job for years, for the fear of not getting 'such a good job' again. We stay with the same circle of friends so that we are sure that no one can hurt us.
Is it wrong to be safe? Isn't that what we learn as we grow up? Be safe! Keep everyone around you safe? Safe! Safety! Protect you loved ones! Then why all this rattle? Why this urge to break free?
Just take a look and wonder, how much are we losing when we are just being safe?
Letting go of people, places, and thoughts is difficult, but once you take the decision, stick to it and you will feel good! (Trust me on that) You won't die :D
A feeling that we all want, wish for, pray for, but are too scared to accept it. We stay in the same relationship even after we don't feel for the person. A friend of mine told me, 'I have invested 7 years of my life, I don't want to start all over again!' She is not wrong, but then just because you will be out of your comfort zone, just because its easy, shall we just give up on our chance of seeing a new beginning?
These questions just keep running in our mind, but we avoid them. If we stop avoiding and start accepting that change is the only thing that keeps us alive, the hope for change, the need for change, then maybe we all will one day have the most wonderful feeling in this world!We all can feel good, content, happy.
Now again, being content doesn't mean to stick with the same thing you had, nor does it mean leave everyone and move ahead. We need to remember that our life is a book, and it has chapters, they are all connected, and each chapter has to end, and so it will!
Acceptance, will lead to letting go - the old feelings, the regrets, those people who hurt us, the thoughts that haunt us and a life that awaits us!
So stop holding on, stop being safe and for once, just let it go darling! This once, for yourself :)
Love,
Jam
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